If we spend all our time trying to convince people of how they are living their life wrong, and how our worldview is so much better, then can we really be suprised when we are scrutinized/criticized/cussed out?
No, it is not an attack on your faith. It’s because you are being mean.
Dealing with our own wounds and connecting with people on a human, personal level is a much better way to communicate. Harder yes. Riskier, oh most certianly yes. Will people come over to our way of thinking? When did that become our soul motivation? (Yes, the spelling of sole is intentional.)
Are we caring to communicate or converting to assimilate?